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One child complained to her father about her life and ask why life is so hard for her. He does not know how to deal with it and almost give up. He already tired to fight. It seems every time a problem arose over a new problem. 


His father was a chef, took her to the kitchen. He filled three pots with water and put it on fire. Once in a pan of boiling water she put carrots in the pan first, second and eggs in a pot of coffee in the third pot. He let it boil without saying a word. The child is silent and waited impatiently, wondering what he was doing his father. 

After 20 minutes had passed, turned off the burners. He fished the carrots out and placed them in a bowl, pour the eggs in a bowl and pour the coffee powder in the bowl as well. Then he said to his son, "What you see, boy?" "Carrots, eggs and coffee," answered the child. 

Her father brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots were soft. The father then asked him to take an egg and break. After removing the skin, he found a boiled egg is hardened. Finally, her father asked her to sip the coffee. He smiled when tasting coffee with a distinctive scent.
"What does it mean, father?" 

The father explained that these objects had faced the same difficulties, namely boiling. But each reacted differently. Boiled carrots before a strong, hard and difficult to be broken, but after a gentle and soft boiled. egg had been fragile, thin shell protecting its liquid interior. However, after boiling inside became hardened. Coffee powder changes to a unique experience. After they were in the boiling water, coffee powder to change the water. 

"Are you including which one?" asked his father. "When trouble comes come to you, how do you cope? Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee? Are you the carrot that seems hard but with pain and difficulty is you give in, soften and remove your strength." 

"Are you the egg that starts with a gentle heart with a dynamic spirit, but after suffering difficulties become hardened and stiff. Or are you like the coffee bean? Powdered coffee convert hot water, when water reaches the temperature of the hottest coffee was more enjoyable, Be thou coffee powder, when things got worse around also improved, even able to give color and a pleasant fragrance to the environment. "

Salt and Lake

Once upon a time there lived a wise old. On one morning, there came a young man who was overwhelmed with many problems. Unsteady steps and facial features are complicated. The young man did look like someone who is not happy. He tells all his problems. The old are wise to listen carefully. He then took a handful of salt and a glass of water. The inclusion of the salt into a glass and stir gently.

"Try drinking this and say how it feels." Said the old man. "Salty. Salty at all. "Answered the visitor as he spat on the side.


The old man smiled a little to hear that answer. He then invites the boy to the edge of the lake near where he lived. Arriving at the edge of the lake, the old sow that a handful of salt into the lake. With a stick, mix the lake water. "Try to take water from this pond dam drink." When the young man finished his drink in ait was asked, "How do you feel?" "Fresh" said the young man "Do you feel the salt in the water?" Ask him again "No," replied the young man


With the old man gently patted the young man's back. "Young man, listen. Bitter life is like a handful of salt before, no more and no less. The amount of salt I sprinkle the same, but the taste of water that you feel different. Similarly, the bitterness of failure in life that we feel this will greatly depend on the container that we have. Bitterness that will be based from feeling where we put everything. It will all depend on our hearts. So when you feel the bitterness and failure in life, there's only one thing you can do. free to accept your chest. Expand your heart is to hold any bitterness that. "

He continued his counsel, "Your heart is the container. Do you feel is the place. Your heart is where you collect everything. So, do not make your heart is like glass. Make like a lake that is able to reduce any bitterness and turn it into a freshness and happiness "

Obstacles in Life

Time immemorial, there was a king who put a large rock in the middle of the road. King was then in hiding, to see if anyone is willing to remove the stone from the road. Some of the richest merchants who are the partners to walk the king arrived at the huge stone circle. Many also are dating, then cursed the king for not cleaning the road of obstacles. However, none of which would paved the way by getting rid of the stone.
Then came a farmer carrying a lot of vegetables towards justice. Armpit closer farmers are then put vegetables and try to move the stone to the side of the road. After much pushing and pushing he finally got rid of the big stone.


When the farmers want to raise the back of vegetables, place the rock turns out there are pockets that contain a lot of money and gold from the king. Letter stating that the gold is only for people who want to get rid of rocks from the road.


The farmer was later learned, a lesson that we never could understand that at every obstacle hidden opportunities that can be used to improve our lives. If there is a stone that blocks our way then take away that, if there is a wall blocking the way we live then jump. Use all means and our ability to achieve the goal of life we ​​want.

Obstacles in Life

Time immemorial, there was a king who put a large rock in the middle of the road. King was then in hiding, to see if anyone is willing to remove the stone from the road. Some of the richest merchants who are the partners to walk the king arrived at the huge stone circle. Many also are dating, then cursed the king for not cleaning the road of obstacles. However, none of which would paved the way by getting rid of the stone.

Then came a farmer carrying a lot of vegetables towards justice. Armpit closer farmers are then put vegetables and try to move the stone to the side of the road. After much pushing and pushing he finally got rid of the big stone.

When the farmers want to raise the back of vegetables, place the rock turns out there are pockets that contain a lot of money and gold from the king. Letter stating that the gold is only for people who want to get rid of rocks from the road.

The farmer was later learned, a lesson that we never could understand that at every obstacle hidden opportunities that can be used to improve our lives. If there is a stone that blocks our way then take away that, if there is a wall blocking the way we live then jump. Use all means and our ability to achieve the goal of life we ​​want.

Seven Wonders of the World

A group of geography students are studying the seven wonders of the world. At the beginning of the lesson, they were asked to make list what they thought were the seven wonders of the world today. Although there is some inequality, the most votes:

1. Pyramid              

2. Taj Mahal              

3. Great Wall of China             

4. Tower of Pisa              

5. Borobudur Temple              

6. Eiffel Tower             

7. Ka'bah

When collecting a list of choices, the teacher noticed a student, a quiet girl who has not been collecting paper work. So, the teacher asked him if he has trouble with her list. The girl replied, "Yes, a little. I can not because there were so many. " The teacher said, "Well, say to us what you have and maybe we can help."

The girl hesitated, then read, I think, seven wonders of the world are:        

1. Can See       

2. Can Hear       

3. Can Touching       

4. Can Loving                 

                    She hesitated again for a while and continue ..       

5. Can Feel        

6. Laugh        

7. And Loving It

The classroom is silent instantly.

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What can we learn? So easy we look at human exploitation and called it the magic world, try to ponder what God has given us, we call it all "ordinary". Even without the gift of the eye that God gave to us it is impossible for us to mention the buildings that we consider that miracle.

Story Cookie Thief

A woman was waiting at the airport one night. There are still some hours before her flight. To waste time, she bought a book and a bag of cookies airport shop and found seating for reading. While seated, the woman opened the book she had just purchased. In the exciting her, she saw a man next to them with so bold as to take one of two cake that lie between them.


The woman tried to ignore to avoid a scene, she read, munched cookies and watched the clock while the cake is a brave thief spends stock. She was increasingly irritated as the minutes passed. She even had time to think, "If I was not so nice, I've beat him!" Every he took a cake, the man also took one.


When only one was left, she wondered what he was. With a smile in her face and nervous laughter, the man offered half his property while he ate the other half.
The women also took the cake and think, "Geez! This man is brave and he was also rude. In fact, he did not seem grateful. "I never felt she was so upset. He heaved a sigh of relief when her flight schedule was announced. She gathered her belongings and headed for the gate and refused to look at the thief who did not know thanks.


She ascended the chair of his plane and then busy looking for a nearly finished reading his book. As she reached into her bag, she held her breath in surprise. Inside the bag there are pockets of cake. cake mine is here? So the cake had belonged to him and she tried to share. Too late to apologize, hse propped sad. Verily,she who was rude and did not know he was the thief thanks and cakes.


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In everyday life we ​​often prejudiced to others: Someone else is always wrong Someone else who should be removed That other people do not know myself Someone else who sinned Someone else who always makes trouble Someone else who deserves a lesson. Yet. .? We often mocking, insulting judgments or ideas of others while in fact we do not know exactly the problem.

Life Is Choices

By the break of a training course, the teacher asked the participants to make a game. "Who is the most important person in your life?" He asked. Teachers ask for an advance to the front of the class participants.

"Please write down 20 names closest to your current life." Participants wrote down 20 names of women on the board. There was a neighbor, friend's office, sister, loved ones and others. Then the teacher asked her to choose to cross out a name that is not considered important. 

Then the participants were crossed out one name, and neighbors. Furthermore, teachers were asked the participants that cross out one name left and the participants were doing. Now, she crossed out the name of Friends office. And so on until the remaining three names on the board. The name of her parents, her husband's name and the name of her son. In front of the class, suddenly felt so lonely. All participants saw the teacher, wondering what next to say. In silence, the teacher said, "Strike one."

With a slow and somewhat hesitant, participants took a marker and cross out one name. The name of his parents. "Please cross one another"

Looks participants were late in the game and she was restless. She picked up his marker up high and cross out the name of the top she wrote earlier. The name of her son, once it broke out sobbing in class. After a few quiet atmosphere that the teacher asked, "You dear people are not parents and your children? Parents who give birth and raise you. You who bear children, while the husband can be found again. Why did you choose the figure of the husband as a most important and difficult to separate? "

All eyes are on those who still stand in front of the class. Waiting for what to say.

"Time will pass. Parents will leave my children too. If  he had grown up and married, she would leave me too. What really could accompany me in this life is my husband.

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Life is like a grain of onions. When peeled layer by layer, will be exhausted. And there are times when we made cry. But our life is a choice to achieve a happy ending

Wisdom ( Part 3 )

You were born original, so no need to imitate other people half to death

( John Mason )

There are three things that remain in life:

Change, Choice and Principles.

( Stephen R. Covey )

If you do not understand limits, you will not achieve many things in life.

( Kevin Costner )

Many things can be completed in one day. Unfortunately, that day we treat as tomorrow.

( Anonymous )

From the beginning I was always confident I would be rich. I guess I never doubted it, for one minute.

( Warren Buffett )

Two street trees are separated and I took the road less taken by someone else. And that's what makes the change.

( Robert Frost )

We can not forgive others for not being ourselves.

( Ralph Waldo Emerson )

The cause of death is life.

( Tom Boswell )

Good values ​​never outdated.

( Anonymous )

A wise man should have money in his head, not his heart.

( Jonathan Swift )

Guardian Angel

A baby who is ready to be born he asked the Lord, "My God, you are sending me to earth, but I'm afraid. I was still very small and  helpless. Who will be there to protect me? "

God replied, "Your angel will always humming a song for you and he'll make you smile every day. You will feel the love and affection and

it's all definitely going to make you happy. "

But the little one asked, "How I can understand their speech if I do not know the language they use?"

God replied, "Your angel will be whispering words of the most beautiful. He will always wait there beside you and with love for him will teach you to speak with a human language. "

Baby asked, "So what if I want to talk to you, my Lord?"

God had again answered, "Your angel will guide you. She will tipped his hand with you and teach you to pray. "

Again the little probing, "But I hear there is a lot of bad people. Who will be who will protect me? "

God replied, "Relax, Your angel will continue to protect you even if lives would be at stake. He often would forget his own interests for the sake of safety. "

However, little is actually sad. "Oh God, surely I would be sad if you do not see you anymore."

God answered again, "Your angel will always teach my greatness and he will be educating you how to always obey and obey Me. He will always guide you to always remember me. Despite that, I'll always be by your side. "

Silence, peace still hit heaven. However, the voices calling from the earth drifted. "My God, I'll go now. Please specify the name of angels who will protect me. "

God replied, "Your angel's name is not so important. You will call him as 'MOTHER'. "

Listen to your dreams.

Dreams contain symbols used our unconscious mind to speak to us. Without realizing the dream that can overcome the obstacles in our lives.

In nominal terms, the dreams may seem strange and meaningless. but if you use it as stimulating your imagination and try a variety of ways to interpret it, perhaps you find something that directs your mind to a new direction.

Many dreams that have led people to important advances in science and technology.

For example:
* Chemist August Kekulé dreaming of a rotating six coiled snakes. This vision is inspired about six carbon Benzene Ring.

* Elias Howe dreamed of being attacked by spears with holes in its ends, this leads to sewing machine needle move his eyes from the initial position located at the blunt end into the tip of the taper.

* Dmitri Mendeleev create the periodic list of chemicals is also based on the inspiration of his dreams.

* The melody for "Yesterday" in the mind of Paul McCartney from the Beatles is also derived from dreams.

Based on the story above, let us ponder our dreams slowly. visualize yourself and try to solve our dreams. Because the dream has a power that can help us if used properly premises.

Wisdom ( Part 2 )

I like an exclusive menu, you can see but can not afford it.

( Anna Kounikova )

All I need to make a comedy only parks, police and beautiful girl

( Charlie Chaplin )

You do not have to succeed the first time.

( Barbara Sher )

Experience is an eccentric teacher. She gives the test first, then the lesson

( Anonymous )

Make mistakes in life not only more honorable but more useful than not doing anything at all.

( George Bernard Shaw )

If the spirit pushed you, let reason hold the control.

( Benjamin Franklin )

I do not know the key to success, but the key to failure is trying to please people.

( Bill Cosby )

Sometimes winning a battle worse result than if you lose.

( Billie Holiday )

Give everyone your ears, but give a little person in your voice.

( Shakespeare )

Avoid the crowd. Build your own thoughts, be a chess player instead of his pawns.

( Ralph Charell )

Glory Can't Survive In The Same Way In Different Periods.

      We often faced the problem that if we already feel confident about something, we like his patented it and reluctant to change with the times and time. Whereas much of a theory does not survive long after someone creates it.

     When troops descendant of  King of  Prussia

Frederick the Great patented military base that remains in use despite 20 years of the king's death. What happened was they lost to Napoleon for his theory of war that have been fragile and has a different philosophy in the days of the time.

Another example :

Parch Fish Syndrome

This long thin fish with sharp teeth, fierce predators that prey on fish smaller. Experiments conducted in this way:

* A clear bell-shaped bottles in water content and type of fish in place in a large aquarium containing a fish Parch. as expected, it Parch fish-anchovy fish attack earlier. But every time the fish Parch do this, with the pain he was banging his nose and face. After trying many times, his final Parch fish stop its attacks and ignore the anchovy earlier.

* Now the interesting part: The examiners dispose clear bell-shaped bottle for its fish-fish can swim freely, but now it does not attack the fish Parch.

* Fish Parch been associated with anchovy pain and unable to adapt to new realities namely "PAIN-FREE" are now easily affordable.

We can pick a valuable lesson from the story above, that is how we do not easily give up, keep trying new things and adaptable to the environment with a theory appropriate to the circumstances and our environment.

Notice the little things.

In 1960, meteorologist Edward Lorenz tried to model weather patterns through computer simulation. He ENTERED data of wind speed, air pressure and temperature into three inter-related equations, calculation of the first equation be likened to a second equation the which is then likens it to the third equation and thus the first equation, to create a mathematical feedback loop . with this simple model, Lorenz Able to Predict the weather with a little right.

One day, Lorenz must review its results of long Calculations. He decided to make a shortcut and enter the Same Data Used That Had been before Them but it rounded to the nearest thousandth of a quarter instead of to the nearest million (0506 sample was not his 0.506127). He thought this Would That little impact on the overall results. When looking at the patterns of his prints, however he was AMAZED Pls he found the results were the resource persons very different from the first attempt.

Soon he realized That very small changes in the numbers That Reflect his state of wind, temperature or pressure will from be larger by the feedback process and its outcome led Lorenz to ask: "Does the flap of butterfly wings in Brazil cause a tornado storm in Texas ? "

Since then, Butterfly Effect likened changed from rich and in use in many fields outside of physics to DESCRIBE how a very small change in a variable in a dynamic system of cans have a major impact on its working system.
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Wisdom ( Part 1 )

People who are lonely because they build walls instead of bridges.

( Joseph F. Newton )

If someone hurts you, first find out whether the wound needs to be noticed or not. because not all dangerous wound.

( John C. Maxwell )

Do not drown the man who taught you to swim. if you learn the business or the career of someone, do not rise up against him is.

( C. H. Spurgeon )

Shut up for the service you provide, but talking about the help that you receive.

( Seneca )

If you suffer from unfair treatment of someone who is evil, forgive him, if not then there will be two people are evil.

( Augustine )

One's feet should be on his trail in his country, but his eyes should see the world.
( George Santayana )

Pity is all people, trust few people, do not do wrong to none.

( Shakespeare )

A drop of honey captures more flies than a barrel of bile.
( Abraham Lincoln )

Healthy people do not know people are not sick.

( Hannah Green )

Our faces are lies. our necks are the truth.

( Nora Ephron )

They undermined a lot of people but never gave up

1. Adam Khoo

He is a Singaporean. As a kid, he is a fan of games and TV. One day, she could for hours in front of the TV. Both play PS or watching TV.

Adam Khoo is also known as a stupid child. When the fourth grade, he was expelled from school. He went into the worst primary school in Singapore. When will enter junior high school, he was rejected by six of the best junior high school there.But he is never gave up. Finally, he could get into the worst school in Singapore. Once the collapsed academic achievement, but improved over time precisely because the scorn of his friends, until finally gaining success in the business world.

Adam's achievements in the business world is marked at the time Adam was 26 years old. He already has four businesses with a total value of turnover per year U.S. $ 20 million.

The story of Adam's business began when he was 15 years old. He was doing business music box. The next business is a business training and seminars. At the age of 22, Adam Khoo is a national trainer in Singapore. His clients are the managers and top managers of companies in Singapore. The pay was U.S. $ 10,000 per hour.

2. Thomas Alva Edison

One day, a boy aged 4 years old, somewhat deaf and dumb in school, go home to his house carrying a piece of paper from his teacher. her mother read the paper,

Tommy, the boy's mother, very stupid. We ask the mother to get her out of school.

The mother was shocked to read this letter, but he soon made a firm determination, "My son Tommy, not a stupid child. I own that will educate and teach him. "

Little Tommy was Thomas Alva Edison we know today, one of the greatest inventors in the world. he only went about 3 months, and physically somewhat deaf, but it was not a barrier to moving forward.

Anyone who previously thought that the deaf boy that stupid as to be asked out of school, ultimately could become a genius? The answer is his mother! Yes, Nancy Edison, mother of Thomas Alva Edison, do not give up so easily with the opinion of the school for their children.

3. Aristotle Onassis

At school, he was stupid and like to find the case, following the example of many rich people. Not funny if he was expelled from several schools. It most often ranked the lowest in its class.

One teacher said: classmates adore him, but the teacher of teachers and their families despair.

While he was young, one can easily see that he will be a among those who would destroy themselves or succeed at all glorious. His report cards at school far from good, her talent to trade and make money has been looking since early. His end he became a millionaire.

Warren Buffett, Success becomes the richest man in the world.

Warren Buffett, born in Omaha, Nebraska, United States, August 30, 1930. She is a successful investor and entrepreneur thanks to the hard work and courage to try something new.

He dubbed the Oracle of Ohama; Buffet is very astute in investing, through which he held shares of 38% in Berkshire Hathaway company, he has gained enormous wealth. In 2005 he was ranked second as the world's richest person under the Bill Gates but since March 5, 2008 Buffett managed to become the richest through Bill Gates who is now ranked third.

Warren Buffett first bought shares at the age of 11 years and he regretted not start buying shares when he was younger. When he was only 14 years old, he bought a small farm from the proceeds of a newspaper deliveryman. Look great and successful people are not achieved easily, Warren Buffett started to buy shares and become a newspaper deliveryman, all starting from the little things that maybe for some people do not want to feel it, but Buffet did it and now he has become very successful people .

Buffett once said: "I do not want to jump seven steps at a time. What I do is go up one by one rung. "

It shows that to be successful is not the same as turning the palm of the hand or with a business overnight, it all starts from the heart desires and beliefs that will make us the spirit to achieve our impan. Having moved up one ladder, we also do not easily give up to go up to the next rung. when it was on the highest ladder like we're not being arrogant and still looking down. This is also done Buffett, when he had everything he always boarded commercial planes despite having the largest private jet company. He also did not pick the driver and security guard. Warren does not have any cell phone or computer on his desk and never mingle with the sophisticated, if it is at home he usually makes pop corn and watch tv. He was still living in the city Ohama, Nebraska a small town not a big city that has been chosen by others. Small house with three beds without a fence - which he bought 50 years ago in downtown Omaha - is the "palace" for this aging billionaire.

Warren Buffett's message to young people: "Stay away from credit cards, start to invest, live simply, and do not waste money on useless things," said the owner of property valued at U.S. $ 52 billion, 80 percent donated to humanity. It's a very
charismatic and virtuous